Every silhouettes of your future is determined by the central station of your thoughts. Every shades of perception you see is determined by the central station of perception of your ownself. How do you see yourself? Do you feel sexy? Are you aware that the opposite sex is attracted to your beautiful or handsome face? Are you constantly motivated to show off your curvy body figure or your prose and muscle? Did you even thought of God on your ‘sexy’ gifts from Him?
Many people thinks that when you become a Christian you become ‘unsexy’ and to be refrigerated against contamination and to be delivered from sexual sins. To the contrary, starting from the age of 13 to 14, we naturally start to become sexy for a long time in our lives; when we reach puberty and our old body dies and a new sexy you emerges and you start to notice rainbows of passion and abundance of favors surrounding you. If we are sexy and yet we do not know it, we might feel that don’t know what’s wrong with us. But what if we are not drop dead sexy or jaws dropping gorgeous by world standard, what do we still have to ‘show off’ to make us feel good, loved and cherished? Well God is a just God, He has made you more sexier in other ways that can attract the opposite sex like bees to the honey.
Being sexy is not only the way to populate the earth, to breed and multiply the population and satisfy our sexual desires, instinct and needs. But, it is God’s designed way for man and woman to draw closer, fall in love and have intimate relationships with each other as witnessed in Genesis: 1. 28. And God blessed them: and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it; and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the birds of the heavens, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. Although there are some quarters who misuse the 2nd sentenced above to justify their wild sexual activities or polygamy and other poly types in the dictionary. And intentionally ignoring the 1st sentence, which is ‘God blessed them with a semi colon’. Because God wants us to be loved and love our destined partner in life, that is His will.
We are all wired to see sexy from a far and to feel sexy at the back of our eyes and we do not realize it when it come so naturally. For we are all God’s creations, certainly love, sexy and intimacy with our spouse are certainly part of God’s blue print of good pleasures as recorded in Mark: 10. 6. But from the beginning of the creation, Male and female made he them. 7. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife;
On the contrary, bad sexy is from violence, carnage and ego that pulls away from God’s plan and purpose; good sexy is pure and based on God’s love and grace. When bad sexy overcomes good sexy, we might find that sins and lusts becomes part of our lives and grips our sexual drive and immorality as per Genesis: 1. 27. And God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
God did not only wants us to only enjoy love and intimacy, rather we made to be victorious in life, overcomers of darkness into his wonderful light. He wants to enjoy us of His good pleasure that He has prepared for us. Foremost, He wants us to receive His grace and mercy abundantly that flows through Christ Jesus as read in Ephesians: 1. 4. even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blemish before him in love: 5. having foreordained us unto adoption as sons through Jesus Christ unto himself, according to the good pleasure of his will, 6. to the praise of the glory of his grace, which he freely bestowed on us in the Beloved: –
When lusts draws us away from God’s love and forces us into the temptations and bondage of sins, inevitably we draw closer to the trap of the enemy that seek to destroy and defeat us. Make no mistake that the flower of lust is sin and the fruits of sin is death according to the Bible in James: 1. 14. but each man is tempted, when he is drawn away by his own lust, and enticed. 15. Then the lust, when it hath conceived, beareth sin: and the sin, when it is fullgrown, bringeth forth death.
God is a good God that is loving and caring for His children and God too is a God of second chance, there is no sins so cardinal or so big that God won’t forgive and cleanse, provide we must have a soft heart, repentance and turn around and turn away from our previous sins completely. For God’s mercy and grace knows no bounds where the sky and heaven is the limit. But God requires us to be teachable and mouldable in every aspects of our lives. Beauty for ashes and weakness for strength. Remember the greatest love and Christ is before us and He is always behind us.